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What can moms learn from Celina Sotomayor, the Supreme Court nominee's mother?  She conveyed four powerful messages to her children:

1)    You can overcome huge obstacles with education
2)    Dreams come true through effort and persistence
3)    Enlist the support of others to navigate through hardship
4)    Instill values by living your values

Read Elaine Povich's piece published this week in the AARP Bulletin to learn more about Celina Sotomayor and how she modeled resilience, never falling victim to self-pity or hopelessness.

http://bulletin.aarp.org/yourworld/family/articles/celina_sotomayor_the_nominee_s_mother_is_one_extraordinary_person_.html



Celina Sotomayor: The Nominee's Mother Is 'One Extraordinary Person'
A life of hard work and determination is honored in a Senate hearing room


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Staying Close to Your Teen

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Staying Close to Your Teen

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http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/g/a/2009/07/16/hearstmagfamily421690.DTL
Lots of good ideas about how to stay close to your teen, from Good Housekeeping, reprinted this month in the San Francisco Chronicle.
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Want to know how to be honest with your kids without creating needless anxiety? Should parents try to shield their kids from bad economic news? What can parents do if they notice their children feeling anxiety? What if you're worried about holding it together in front of the kids? Watch Jamie on ABC's View From the Bay:

http://abclocal.go.com/kgo/story?section=view_from_the_bay/parenting_babies&id=6718710

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Want to know how to be honest with your kids without creating needless anxiety? Should parents try to shield their kids from bad economic news? What can parents do if they notice their children feeling anxiety? What if you're worried about holding it together in front of the kids? Watch Jamie on ABC's View From the Bay:

http://abclocal.go.com/kgo/story?section=view_from_the_bay/parenting_babies&id=6718710

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Teens Say Parents Are Their Heroes

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A recent study conducted by MTV and The Associated Press interviewed nearly 1,300 young people aged 13 to 24 years old. The results found that the majority of teens find the most happiness in family. What's more, most respondents listed their parents (i.e. you) as their heroes. And (it gets even better) most young people (over three-quarters) said being with their parents brought them even more joy than being with their friends. What's more, half say religion and spirituality are very important. Intrigued by these finding, I asked my virtual teen "Secret Sources" who their heroes are.  The vast majority, sure enough, mentioned a parent. Read some sample responses...

"I look up to my parents for being the people who raised me and have done what I think is a good job."

"My first hero is my mom. I know that sounds cheesy but she is. She is this strong person who has had a LOT of hard things happen to her. And she is still fine with the person she is and she doesn't change for the benefit of anyone. She tells me about it because she believes that hiding your emotions is bad. That's also something I admire her for because it's not always easy to do that."

"I would say my parents (are my heroes). I look to them when I have a problem, and they always have the answer. I don't want to have the same job as them, but when I grow up I do want to be like my parents in the way that they are so wise and loving to their children and friends and know what is right and what is wrong."

"As much as I love my friends, my parents are my heroes and the people I feel most safe and comfortable with. I admire them for always being there for me and for working hard even when I know they don't always enjoy going off to work every single day. They teach me what it means to be responsible."





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Tips To Ease Teens' Pressure

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Here are some wise words of advice for parents of teens about how to put less pressure on their already pressured lives.  Read what two teens have to say...
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This morning I met with one of my favorite management teams. I've watched them do the most amazing soul-searching in order to shift from a conflict-charged, distrustful group to a cohesive and respectful team.  At their meeting today, they discussed the low staff morale in their organization.  One manager said she feels like they're bad parents with out-of-control kids. By not taking bold action, she worried that they're failing to protect the good performers.  The disrespectful employees, they all agreed, are poisoning the family. What lessons can parents take from the workplace home?  When the climate at home has gone beyond the usual sibling squabbles and disrespectful behavior is more the rule than the exceptional bad-mood-day, it's time to ask some hard questions:

  1. How are you playing a role in your child's disrespectful behavior?
  2. How do you demonstrate respect through your everyday behavior?
  3. What is the cost of not setting clear consequences for disrespectful behavior?
  4. Have you established crystal clear expectations of what respect looks like, sounds like?
  5. Have you made clear what behavior gets "zero tolerance?"

Leadership is all about taking action to support compelling goals. We all want to raise respectful kids. The bottom line: show commitment to your parenting goals with action. 
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